Natural Laws of Good Luck : A Memoir of an Unlikely Marriage, Paperback by Graf, Ellen, ISBN 1590308336, ISBN-13 9781590308332, Like New Used, Free shipping in the US In a story of acceptance and love beyond words, an upstate New Yorker meets and marries a man from China who she barely knows and with whom she doesn’t share a language or culture, but she learns that his eternal optimism manages to get them through financial problems, cultural differences, and other challenges.